The Anti-Impulse Buying HandbookFocus Direction / Looma Rae · Ed. 01
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46-page workbook · edition 01

You don't have
a spending
problem.
You have a
speed problem.

Almost every purchase you regret was made in under four minutes. This is the handbook that slows those four minutes down — 10 counter-moves, 7 tools, and a 30-day tracker you actually fill in.

It isn't a budgeting book. Budgets fail for one boring reason: they try to out-discipline a system built by people with psychology degrees and a very large budget of their own. So we don't use willpower. We use counter-psychology.

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Print it, or open it
on a tablet with a pen
Your cart is not your friend Stop the €9.99 bleed Not a budget
Specimen 01 — the funnel, reproducedlive
Ends in 04:00 Only 2 left 14 people viewing
THE
THING
The thing you looked at once on Tuesday
€129€39Save 70%
Pay in 4 × €9.75Buying…
Want → own: 1.5 seconds
None of that was real The timer, the stock counter, the crossed-out price, the four painless payments — we built them so you could watch them work on you for a second. That is the whole product: every move above is named, taken apart, and given a counter-move you can run in sixty seconds.
Exercise 02 — from page 6

The number
you haven't
looked at.

Small amounts, spread out, invisible in aggregate. That's not a character flaw — it's the design working. Open your bank app, scroll the last 30 days, and put in what the unplanned things came to. Groceries, bills and rent don't count. Guess if you have to — the book has you do it properly with receipts.

Stop thinking of it as money leaving. It's your options leaving. Every unplanned €30 is a small piece of a future you can no longer afford to choose.

€2,160× 12 — per year
€10,800× 5 — five years
180 hrsOf your life, per year *

That five-year number is a deposit, a sabbatical, or a very good year. The handbook doesn't ask you to stop buying things — it asks that you're the one choosing.

* At €12/hour take-home. Trick 02 shows you how to work out your real rate.

The mechanism

Notice what's
missing from
this loop.

There's no decision in it. That's not a metaphor — the funnel is built specifically to route around the part of you that decides. Here's the loop, and what breaks it — the numbers are the ten tricks, and they're all in the next section.

  1. Cue

    A drop, an ad, a bad day, a "you left something in your cart" email at 8:02pm. You didn't go looking. It found you.

    Broken by 10 · 03
  2. The spike

    Dopamine isn't the reward — it's the wanting. It peaks while you imagine owning the thing. Which is why the box is always a little disappointing.

    Broken by 01 · 04
  3. The squeeze

    Timers, low-stock counters, "3 people are viewing this." Urgency is engineered to stop you leaving the peak and thinking.

    Broken by 01 · 08
  4. Frictionless checkout

    Saved card, one tap, or split into four so the pain of paying never registers. Your brain barely logs it as spending.

    Broken by 05 · 02
  5. The crash — and the story

    The spike fades in minutes. Then your brain writes a justification so you don't feel stupid: "I needed it anyway." That story is what makes it happen again next week.

    Broken by 06 · 07 · 09
Part one

Ten tricks.
Ten days.
You keep three.

Each one names the exact move being run on you, then hands you the counter-move, the sentence to say out loud, and a setup that takes under ten minutes. Left page: the trap. Right page: the escape.

01

The 72-hour freeze

Nothing enters your life in under three days. Not a ban — a delay, and it kills most of them on its own.

Defeats: scarcity
02

Price it in hours

€40 is abstract. Four hours of your Tuesday is not. Money shuffles between mental folders; time doesn't.

Defeats: mental accounting
03

Break the fake anchor

Decide your number before you see theirs. A discount turns spending into an achievement — that's the trick.

Defeats: anchoring
04

Un-own it first

A cart is a list of photos of objects in someone else's warehouse. Empty every one, every Sunday.

Defeats: the endowment effect
05

Add friction, not willpower

You can't out-discipline a 1.5-second checkout. Nobody can. So put the seconds back instead.

Defeats: the pain-of-paying bypass
06

Name the feeling first

Four words before checkout. Half the time the answer ends the transaction on its own.

Defeats: mood repair selling
07

The cost-per-use receipt

Use your track record, not your imagination. Future-you has never once cashed the cheques you write.

Defeats: the "investment" story
08

Kill the decoy

Decide before you see the menu. You spend €14 to dodge €4.90 shipping and file it under saving money.

Defeats: decoy & bundle pricing
09

One in, one out

The "out" happens first. The expensive part of a purchase is the six smaller ones it summons.

Defeats: the Diderot spiral
10

Curate the feed

Thirty minutes once, then it works while you sleep. You cannot want what you never see.

Defeats: the algorithm
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Specimen 02 — the anchorLook at that for three seconds and you're no longer deciding whether €39 is a fair price for a coat. You're deciding whether 70% is a good discount. Different question, much easier to say yes to. Trick 03 reverses it — your number first, theirs second. And no, we're not running it on you: the handbook is €7, flat, and it has never been anything else.
What's actually in it

46 pages
you write in.

The exercises are the product. Reading alone changes nothing, and you already know that from every other guide you read this year.

10

Tricks to install

  • One per day, under ten minutes each
  • The trap, the psychology, the counter-move
  • A line to say out loud when you're standing in a shop at 19:40
  • A dated box to sign when it's installed
07

Tools you keep

  • The 60-second buy gate — five questions, screenshot it
  • Your trigger map: time, place, mood, category
  • The silent subscription audit
  • The swap menu, pocket scripts, the freeze list
  • Your Sunday, in five minutes
30

Days of tracker

  • Six rules, one signature page
  • Daily rows: clean, urges, trigger, € saved
  • Weekly reflection and the didn't-buy log
  • A relapse protocol, because you will slip
The only metric that matters Not "did I spend zero." It's: how many purchases did I make on purpose? That number going up is a good sign, not a bad one.

Tool 05 — ten pocket scripts. Say them out loud. Saying it breaks the trance, which is most of the job.

Before you buy it

Who this is
actually for.

Get it if

  • Your bank app is full of small amounts you can't account for
  • Every budget app you've downloaded is still sitting there, unopened
  • You buy at night, on the commute, or after a bad shift
  • You want a system, not a personality transplant
  • You'll actually write in it — with a pen or on a tablet

Skip it if

  • You want a spreadsheet, a budget template, or investment advice
  • You want to be told you deserve less. This isn't a punishment plan
  • You want something to read passively — the exercises are the product
  • Spending feels genuinely compulsive, or it's tied to debt you can't service. Please talk to a financial counsellor or a healthcare professional first. That's a strength move, and this handbook isn't the whole answer
Edition 01 · instant download

Buy less.
Choose harder.

€7one payment · not four
  • 46-page A4 workbook (PDF) — print single-sided or annotate on a tablet
  • All 10 tricks with install steps and pocket scripts
  • 7 printable tools, including the freeze list and subscription audit
  • The full 30-day tracker, weekly reflections and didn't-buy log
  • Reprintable pages, so month two is free

There are no testimonials on this page. Social proof is the last trick in the book, and using it here would be a bit rich. Buy it because the argument above worked on you — not because a stranger with a ring light said it changed their life.

Questions people actually ask

Is this a no-buy challenge?

No. It's a nothing-unplanned challenge. You still buy things — you buy them from the freeze list, on a Sunday, at full attention. There's a weekly treat built in on purpose, because total restriction is what causes the blowout on day 19.

How long does the whole thing take?

About six weeks, run properly: two short exercises to get your baseline, ten days to install the tricks at one per day, then the 30-day reset with a five-minute review each Sunday. You don't have to wait, though — the book says you can start the tracker today and read a trick a day as you go. Both work. And if you're in a hurry, page 31 is every in-the-moment check compressed into five questions. Screenshot it and start there.

Do I have to print it?

No. It's A4 and every box, line and table is built to be filled in, so it works printed with a pen or opened in any PDF app with a stylus. Only three pages ever get used up, and you can reprint those.

The examples are in euros. Does that matter?

Not one calculation depends on the currency — only on the size of the number. Swap in pounds, dollars, złoty, whatever you spend.

How do I get it after paying?

Straight away. The download link appears on the confirmation page and lands in your inbox at the same time, so you can open it on a laptop and print it later. There's no account to create and nothing to install — it's a PDF.

What if I slip?

You will, and there's a whole page for it. You log it, you find the missing switch that let it through, and you carry on from the next day — not from day one. Restarting from zero is a punishment mechanic and it's why people quit around day 19.

What do I need before I start?

Your bank app, for the last 30 days of transactions. And a pen. That's the entire equipment list.